Monday, April 30, 2012

Sharing: The First Two Months of the Last Semester


          Our classes begin on Feb 23 and I am in intermediate level 2.  There are intensive reading, extensive reading, listening, writing and conversation classes.  After several weeks, I finally sign up for optional classes on HSK preparation, Tourism, and several classes for bachelor degree program: Chinese customs, Chinese Contemporary Issue, Geography.
            One of my Chinese friends visited to my dorm on Mar 3 evening so I cancelled my plan to attend the Saturday Mandarin Mass.  The next day, after attending the Mandarin mass, I visited Sr. Mary Clare as I still have time before Mandarin RCIA classes.  She invited me to attend a Lenten season retreat for volunteers.  At first, I said I couldn’t attend the RCIA retreat on Mar 17-18 as I would have a regional meeting, but then she said it’s not RCIA retreat and it’s on Mar 11.  So, the next day, I said I can attend the retreat.  The article about the retreat can be read in:      http://anastasialindawatimm.blogspot.com/2012/03/sharing.html
            Gao Zai invited me to have supper in his house since last semester so finally I visited his house after class on Mar 22.  All of us were standing in front of the picture of the Last Supper when his grandfather led the grace before the meal.  He called me “修(xiū)女(nǚ)“   (=sister) and we had conversation about many things including his life story.  He, the fifth generation Catholics in his family, knew the work of Maryknollers in Meizhou in the old days.  After supper, we attended a Mandarin Mass in a parishioner’s house as there was a visiting priest from Shantou.   His grandfather introduced me to the priest who has two religious sisters.        

            Our Chinese Customs teacher assigned us to visit 小(xiǎo)州(zhōu)村(cūn)  (a Xiaozhou village in  大(dà)学(xué)城(chéng)University Town).  There are a lot of ancient spots including Ming Dynasty Well, Oyster Shell House, Liangma bridge, several artshops and family temples.   Two Vietnamese, one Mexican and one Equadorian friends accompanied me to visit this place.  When I was waiting my friends, a cleaning service in our campus wants to throw my bread plastic besides me, I thought he would also throw my drink so I spontaneously let him know that I still wanted the drink (maybe because in the restaurant near our campus, we should watch our tray as the cleaning service sometimes will pick up our tray even though we didn’t finish to eat yet).  He said that he only wanted to throw the bread plastic and then we continue our conversation.  He became my mandarin “teacher” that morning and he still offers to have conversation whenever I am free.
            I went to Hong Kong on Mar 13-15 as we had regional meeting so I had a chance to attend the Fun Day at school held by Parents Teacher Association.  There were coupons to play games with prizes or buy snacks.
            The classes are in the eight weeks so it’s time for the midterm exam on Apr 11-15.  My intensive grade is 77.5, listening is 67, and extensive reading is 80.  It’s the first time that my conversation grade is higher than my reading-writing and listening grades. 
            I enjoyed the visit of Choi Tai tai, Sr. Annie, Erna, Hedar and his wife in several different times.  As Sr. Arlene visited Guangzhou, so I introduced her to Gao Zai as she understands sign language.  I only could amaze to see how did they communicate in sign language, I asked Sr. Arlene to ask several questions which I couldn’t get the answer due to our limited communication.  A Maryknoll Affiliates Richard Perez and I visited and prayed with two Filipino patients and their families in Modern Hospital and then the next day we visited Cathedral, Our Lady of Lourdes Chapel and took the boat ride back to our campus to see the evening view of Pearl River.
            There is Labor Day break on Apr 29- May 1 so I went to Hong Kong after the classes on Friday evening.  I met Richard Perez in Kowloon Tong MTR station as he wants to donate for the baby of Vivian (http://www.mklsisters.org/blog/2012/02/09/i-led-our-prayer-together/) before he leaves for USA the next day.  Vivian called me when I was in Lujiang Guangzhou MTR to send off Richard, so I called Vivian upon arriving dorm.  She said her baby was shaking that morning and previous days, I asked several questions as I also don’t know what can I do for her, finally I invited her to pray together.  She hanged up our telephone conversation as she received another call and promise to call me again.  I missed her call and when I called her back, she said that after our prayer, a woman called to give good news about the medicine/treatment for her baby and another call for hospital to inform her that her baby can have EEG the next evening instead of end May. Thanks be to God for the good news (and also for the donation).  She would call her friends to borrow money for the EEG, that’s why I asked Richard to help.  The baby is being hospitalized now.            
                                          
Hong Kong, May 1, 2012


Sr. Anastasia B. Lindawati, M.M.
Let’s do simple things with simple love to make God’s love visible

Sharing: The Second Winter Break


           My sisters and I had our community retreat on Jan 26 – Feb 1 at Maryknoll Society House in Stanley.  Sr. Claudette LaVerdiere, MM lead the retreat based on her newly published book “On the Threshold of the Future: The life and Spirituality of Mother Mary Joseph Rogers, Founder of the Maryknoll Sisters”.  We had talks on Presence of God, Contemplation and Action, Unity and Diversity, Individuality and Common Good, Obedience, Nobility of Soul, and Ecce Ancilla Domini besides the beginning correspondence history of Mother Mary Joseph and Fr. James A. Walsh, MM.  Fr. Bill Galvin, MM also gave talks on the two founders of Maryknoll: Fr. James A. Walsh, MM, Fr. Thomas F.  Price, MM, the author of Lend Me Your Hands, the how-to-do-it Book for the lay apostolate: Fr. Bernard Meyer. MM, Fr. Francis X. Ford, MM who started the mobile missionary apostolate of two-sister convent system in Kaying-China in 1923, and Fr, John J. Considine, MM.   
            I attended the Margaret Silf Spirituality Conference on “Question of Faith” and “The Challenge of Change” held by Xavier House  http://www.rc.net/newyork/layspirits/MargaretSilf_bio.pdf.
          We had Maryknoll Lunar New Year celebration, a join celebration with Maryknoll Society on Feb 5.  There were 27 Maryknoll Fathers, Brothers and Sisters including Sr. Claudette LaVerdiere, MM and Fr. Kevin Hanlon, MM from USA.
           I attended the talk of Sr. Claudette for the secondary school students and then enjoyed the breakfast in the school canteen.
            I enjoyed the visit of my cousin Santi and her husband from Singapore and also my visit to baby Nara.  Fr. Regie, SVD, Fr. Lukas, SVD and I visited the former place of Saint Joseph Freinademetz in Saikung http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_Freinademetz on Feb 14 morning and then in the afternoon, Fr. Lukas, Retha, I visited Nan Lian Garden http://www.nanliangarden.org/home.php?eng
            I visited our sisters Macau on Feb 15 and then went to Guangzhou for the registration on Feb 17 morning.  Toto, SVD and I visited Trappistine Sisters, Fr. Dominic, SJ and Fr. Domingos in Macau.  It’s quick registration so I could go back to Hong Kong in the afternoon as we have regional assembly on Feb 18.  I had breakfast in Zhuhai, lunch in Guangzhou and supper in Hong Kong!
                                                      
Hong Kong, April 30, 2012


Sr. Anastasia B. Lindawati, M.M.
Let’s do simple things with simple love to make God’s love visible

Friday, April 13, 2012

Easter Letter 2012



Dear all,

Happy Easter!
May the Risen Lord fill you with peace and love

This is an Easter Wednesday and here are my experiences during Holy Week 2012 as my Easter letter.
I attended Mandarin Ash Wednesday Mass in Our Lady of Lourdes Chapel Shamian. The chapel was full with parishioners including several Indonesian students.
As there was school break on Mar 31 till Apr 4 due to sweeping the tomb festival (清(qīng)明(míng)节(jié) ), I went to Hong Kong and attended the Indonesian Palm Sunday Mass at Christ the King Chapel. There were around 260 Indonesians attended the Mass.
One of my friends wrote in her facebook that she was in Hong Kong so we met the next morning and then I went back to Guangzhou. It’s a moving moment as we prayed together with her families. It’s a holy coincidence as I seldom read status of my friends in facebook due to limited time outside mainland China.
After having lunch with several friends from Vietnam, Italy, Madagascar, and Spain on Apr 4, we attended Mandarin Chrism Mass in Cathedral. The priests renewed their priesthood promises and Bishop Joseph Gan consecrated the chrism http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chrism.
I attended the Indonesian Holy Thursday Mass in Indonesian Consulate General. The hall was full with the Indonesians. Later on, there was a Eucharistic Adoration.
As I had afternoon classes, I attended Mandarin Good Friday Liturgy in Our Lady of Lourdes Chapel Shamian with two Indonesians and two Mexicans students. Three of us skipped our writing classes. We started with Mandarin Way of the Cross, Liturgy of the Word, Veneration of the Cross and Holy Communion. Later on, there were Indonesian Good Friday Liturgy, English Way of the Cross and Mandarin Way of the Cross.
Four Indonesians and I visited and prayed with several Indonesians and Filipino patients and their families at Fuda hospital on Saturday morning. One of them was in ICU after a surgery so two of us went to the ICU after negotiating with the nurse that we would be with the patient only for ten minutes. I attended Mandarin Easter Vigil Mass in Cathedral with three students from Colombia and Mexico. After Mass, I met several friends from Italy, Vietnam and Spain. The Cathedral was full till the back side, many parishioners should stand during the Mass. Fr. Tom hold the Easter candle walked to the back of the Cathedral and then went back to the altar with around 100 baptismal candidates. It’s a moving moment even though I only could see from afar. After the baptismal ceremony, the newly baptized wore the white gown, were anointed with the oil and then received Holy Communion. Before Mass, one of my Chinese friends in RCIA classes asked whether I would be baptized so I said I was baptized long time ago. While waiting the green light to cross the street, a young woman asked me whether I just attended the Mass. As I said yes, she shared her life stories, how God answered her prayers through the intercession of Mother Mary. She said several times “很(hěn)奇(qí)妙(miào)” Later on, I know it means “wonderful/fantastic”. She was baptized last year even though she used to go to Protestant church. She gave me her business card and continued to talk until we arrived in the platform of subway. A new Chinese friend in Easter. I enjoyed the Easter boiled egg and cake from friends upon arriving dormitory.
My friend and I attended English Easter Sunday Mass in St. Francis of Assisi Chapel, which was re-opened last Feb. The Chapel was built in 1909 and closed during Cultural Revolution till 1996. Last year, the diocese renovated the Chapel after being used as a hostel. The majority of the parishioners are Filipino and the first Mandarin Sunday Mass would be started in the afternoon. After Mass, we had lunch in a restaurant nearby and desert in the evening. I had a chance to meet several Indonesians in the afternoon.
Holy week this year was colourful in languages and experiences. I gave a short reflection on suffering and kenosis based on Palm Sunday readings for St. Theresia’s prayer cell and then listened to the suffering of the people I met during Holy week. I tried to reflect on the redemptive suffering of Christ http://www.catholica.com.au/peregrinus/015_pere_130906.php. I know I only can pray for all of their suffering so that they still can see hope amidst their suffering, hope to the Risen Lord who suffered and died on the cross.
In this time of Easter season, I recalled the quotation of Anthony T. Padavano, Christmas to Calvary, p. 15 (1): When we begin a life journey with Jesus we must go all the way with him if we would find ourselves. We need not only Christmas but the cross in order to understand Christmas and in order to be given Easter. We are companions of this child and the crucified savior. If we feel unworthly, we must remember that Jesus, in his birth and in his burial, in the virgin’s womb and Calvary’s tomb, reverses all expectations. Easter is a return of Christ to those who felt unworthy but who did not stop loving. We come as wise men and women to the manger, as disciples to the cross, as an Easter people to the empty tomb.

Guangzhou, 11 Apr, 2012



Sr. Anastasia B. Lindawati, M.M.
Let’s do simple things with simple love to make God’s love visible